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| Riding Breanna at First Level |
The Confessions of a Passive Rider
I like to ride with softness. I love the feeling of a horse responding to little more than a thought. My horse's are my friends and pets. Lazy is also a word I'd use to describe myself when it comes to working out. Maybe I can get away with energy efficient-- I like to find the minimum effort required. Sometimes that's a very subconscious thing.
Fortunately, I am ambitious and motivated to achieve my goals. Furthermore, I have learned over the years to be honest with myself about what I am really doing or not doing to achieve those goals. There are no shortage of examples of hearing people complain about where they are at, when they are doing very little of anything productive to get to where they
say they want to go. That is definitely NOT me.
Okay, so I can breathe some sighs of relief. However, I'm still guilty of something. There are times when I ride that I think I'm riding. I think I applied my aids--in actuality I did apply them. But after that? I relied on two aids that have no place in riding. They have no bearing on the horse. The good ole'
hope and
pray. I
hope the aids work and I
pray my horse will finish the rest of the task. But, for the remainder of the movement, I am little more than an adornment on my horse. He might use a different term, but I do very little else to help him.
Over the years, I have dissected the reasons why riders resort to hope and pray, by analyzing what I do and watching others.
First, I think some aspect of this happens when a rider doesn't know what to expect. They are waiting and perhaps not recognizing that not enough is happening, or not the right reactions in the horse. This is an education issue and readily solved by watching really good riders do the same task, reading books and watching videos. If you horse isn't doing THAT, then you need to do more or different to get it to happen.
Second, and this is the one I am most guilty of, the rider avoids doing more in an effort to be soft, light, natural, kind...... there are a host of euphemisms. But, they all equate to passive or ineffective. Get the right job done and then you can do that right job with lightness, softness, whatever you want to call it.
If it isn't done right, it can't be called light-- a motto that has become a favorite of mine.
Third, and I do this too. It is simply focus fail. Whether laziness causes it, or distraction, its a lack of the mental and physical strength to keep riding through the movement, through the aid. And I write this, because I found myself doing this yesterday when I was schooling. I was a lucky ducky because my horse is rather generous most of the time, even if he is a pasture potato pony. He was giving me the last lead changes in my tempi's nice and clean in spite of the fact that I found myself suddenly thinking, "oh, we're done." Yes, that is a sure sign that I was NOT mentally engaged in my task. If you find yourself thinking, "oh, shoot, we have a transition at this letter," or, "whoa, corner!" you have been guilty of a focus fail.
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| Riding with good focus ahead, legs on and a feel of my horse. |
Don't worry. None of this is meant to inspire a beat-yourself-up session. Its just a dose of reality we all must face. Hope and pray are not aids that horses understand. Horses yield from pressures. When they don't the pressure was either applied wrong, or not enough of it to motivate a reaction. Riding really is quite simple, but it is not easy.
How many of you have been guilty of riding with hope and pray instead of your seat, legs, and reins? What strategies do you use to keep yourself riding every stride?